Tuesday, 27 January 2015

Tips For Trying To Give Up A Bad Habit

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A "habit" is something that you do without even thinking about it, or that you do regularly whether you want to or not, and while there are certainly plenty of good habits many of us have, there are also a lot of bad habits - and because of the fact that habits are usually done without much thought being given to them, it can be especially tough to break one of these bad habits, unless you know the right steps to take in order to do so.

Identifying the habit itself is the first step to breaking a bad habit; a lot of people pay little attention to their bad habits, which puts them in a place where they have a hard time breaking them, but once you have identified a habit you want to break, you will be able to think about it consciously more often, which will help you to eventually chase this habit away.

Taking the time to identify what it is that causes this habit to crop up will also be helpful; oftentimes, there will be certain things that trigger a certain habit to show itself, and when you start to identify what these certain things are, you will be able to watch for them - which will help you see the emergence of the habit before it comes.

Once you have identified the habit and pinpointed what it is that brings up this habit, you will need to learn to compartmentalize; too many people try to break a habit all at once, looking at the big picture, and this becomes overwhelming to them, but a much better approach is to instead simply try to fight small battles - beating the habit one instance at a time, each time it crops up.

You may need to go through a long and arduous process to defeat a bad habit completely, but when you take the proper approach, it will become easier and easier over time - and finally, you will reach a point where, without even having fully realized it yourself, the habit will have disappeared, and you will be free of it for good!

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