The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships
The first thing that probably comes to mind when you think of the budget is money, but one thing that is important for you to realize is that there are other areas of your life that you should budget as well, and time is among the most important of these areas; when you fail to budget your time well, you may often end up feeling like there are not enough hours in the day or in the week, but when you create a good time budget, you will be able to take the number of hours in the day or the week and make sure they suit your needs. When you are creating a time budget, you should start out with your workdays, making sure that you are able to get all the work done that needs to be done on these days, while still having as much free time as possible; this can often be accomplished by going into work a bit early to beat the morning traffic, which will also allow you to leave work a bit early in the evening, so that you can beat the traffic again, and have more free time in the evening before bed. If you are married and have children, there is also a good chance that you have at least one day each week that is a “responsibility day,” where you need to do all sorts of things around the house and around the yard; the best way to budget your time on these days is to give yourself a set number of hours you will spend on responsibilities, and to stop working on your responsibilities as soon as you have used up this allotted time – pushing anything you have not yet finished over to the next "responsibility day." And one thing that can really cause people to feel as though they do not have as much time as they would like to have is focusing on things that are not fun during their “fun days”; on your days off, get in the habit of forcing yourself to not think about any of your work tasks or personal responsibilities, but instead, enjoy these days as much as you can, getting the most out of them. When you take this approach to your days, you will cause your weeks to feel much more fulfilled, and will create a situation where you feel like you are taking full advantage of the hours you have in the week.
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