The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships
For most people, when someone has done something special for them, they do not think to send a thank you card, but if you have ever received a thank you card – especially if you have received one for something that was small, something you certainly did not expect to receive a thank you card for – you certainly understand the way in which a thank you card can make an impact. No matter what you do for a living or the sorts of situations you tend to find yourself in, you should always make sure you have a full deck of thank you cards in a desk drawer so that you can take the time to send one out when the situation warrants a thank you. The first thing a thank you card does is it goes an extra step in displaying gratitude; while a simple, verbal “Thank you” will suffice in most situations, this extra step makes your gratitude something that is more concrete in the mind of the person receiving it – something that is more “real.”You will also set yourself apart in the mind of the person who receives the thank you card; while someone may or may not notice if you fail to send a thank you card for something small, they certainly will notice if you do send such a thank you card, as it will stand out to them as a very respectable gesture.
And not only are these positives for you a good reason to send thank you cards, but there are also positives for the person who receives the thank you card; this extra step toward expression of gratitude will make the person to whom you are sending the thank you card feel much more fulfilled for whatever it is that caused you to send them a thank you card. Your thank you card does not need to be complicated or full of fluid words; it simply needs to thank the person in a direct and specific manner, and by taking the few seconds it takes to do this, you will make a big difference in the way you are perceived, and in the way that person feels.
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